Let’s talk about power.
Today’s society, supposedly increasingly non-patriarchal, has both men and women in positions of power and leverage. Yet, there is an increasing sense of awareness that the ‘woman can have it all’ belief is an illusion. (Please refer to the slew of recently published TODAY social commentary pieces on this issue.) More so, the various labels women define themselves by today seem multiple and contradictory, binding us in a wholly fragmentary, undermining way.
Women reading intensely romantic BDSM themed novels as a mainstream phenomenon could be a cultural representation of their latent need to romanticise the emotional bondage they inherently suffer, tied to the multiple yet contradictory roles enforced on them by current social contextual demands, ironically manifested through the people closest to them.
We seem to want to be drawn to someone for no reason, drawn in a way we forget our modern day sensibilities and succumb to our baser urges, to defer completely to someone till we lose ourselves in the ‘us’ and the ‘we’ and have no ‘me’.
Perhaps this need is an instinctive reflex to counter the socially ingrained overcompensation of the past few decades based on lofty feminist ideals to become the ‘independent and emotionally sustainable woman’. Perhaps, true equality between men and women involves understanding that this is impossible in terms of human nature itself. We are all connected, interdependent and emotionally vulnerable on a variety of levels. We keep refusing to acknowledge this fact because we have come to believe this would lead to a loss of control and power over those we are connected to. This is far from the case.
Men are not invulnerable, not even when they were at their chauvinistic peak – just watch an episode of ‘Mad Men’. It is no longer the case of which will be the more powerful gender. This preoccupation that there is a shift in power from men to women with regards to their place in society is obviously an error. Power is not static – it shifts constantly, mutates into various forms in varying situations. Control moves along with it. It is not as direct and unilateral as everyone would like to think. Power relations are a lot more fluid and flexible and more people need to understand this.
We most often associate power with job title, material wealth, physical appearance and even, academic qualifications. The most annoying thing about today’s culture is that it propagates this belief – more often than not, the male protagonist in books and movies is viewed as the embodiment of masculine power only because he has the looks and the money and the tailored suit.
We often forget that power has more to do with the intangibles – upbringing, vastness of mind, benevolence of heart, a certain raw form of energy that radiates from within and seems to draw people close.
Perhaps understanding these indefinite origins of power will allow us to fully comprehend and develop functional relations of power and control between each other more effectively – not just with respect to men and women but between individuals in general.
Power relations can be found to be the most problematic aspect of intergenerational interaction, especially within families. This is particularly acute in our society where working adults live with their parents. These children who are now contributing to the household income want to be recognised as equals but are met with resistance by parents who believe in the inflexible nature of power and authority in a household. This can breed tremendous tension.
Perhaps it is time for us to throw down the gauntlet and face our fluctuating roles in our various social relations with each other in the context of our times. Besides, it all boils down to a quintessential fact – one day your employee could be your boss and you do not want to get fired because you told him or her to make your coffee strong and black.
Reena Devi
Viswaroopam : For Gods Sake…
In Culture, Pravin Prakash, Social Commentary on January 28, 2013 at 10:51 pmKamal Hassan, arguably India’s finest actor, has found his latest movie Viswaroopam banned for 15 days by the Tamil Nadu state government, following protests by several Muslim organisations who argued that in portraying the terrorists as Muslims, Vishwaroopam had hurt the sentiments of Muslims and cast them in a negative light. Following the decision by the Tamil Nadu government, several countries including Singapore have chosen to delay the release of the movie. This evokes several pertinent and serious questions that needs to be highlighted and addressed.
Firstly, let us address the ban issued by the Tamil Nadu government. The decision is questionable on the fundamental notion of what the state defines as being Muslim and being a terrorist. The word terrorist is by no means synonymous with being Muslim. Muslims refer to people of a given religious faith, the vast majority of whom are peace loving people with absolutely no disposition to violence of any kind. Terrorists refer to people who practice “the use of violence and threats to intimidate or coerce, especially for political purposes” and they come from all religious faiths and political leanings. They are not exclusive to Islam.
When one chooses to make a film or write an article on the 9-11 attacks and the terrorist attacks and wars that followed, the portrayal of the terrorists as being Muslims is fact, not a perspective directed at making defamative remarks about Muslims. There is a distinct danger that arises from not drawing a clear distinction between terrorists who are Muslims and Muslims as fundamentally being inclined towards Terrorism. The latter is an extremely flawed perspective that I fear may be enhanced by the government choosing to ban Vishwaroopam. A movie that is based on 9-11 and the Afghanistan is always going to portray the terrorists as being Muslim, portraying them as Eskimos would be somewhat factually inaccurate. Banning the movie as being insensitive to Muslims however enhances the notion that terrorists who are muslims are one and the same as the peace loving man of Islamic faith living next door. It is both shocking and disturbing that the Tamil Nadu state government and its Chief Minister, Jayalalitha cannot make that distinction and explain that to the protesting organisations, all of whom are merely politicking for the sake of a blind populist agenda for which any cause is a good one.
There is also little legal sense in the ban. In banning the movie for two weeks, the government of Tamil Nadu has merely excused itself from its fundamental responsibility of protecting the right towards the freedom of expression, with the fortnight stipulation added making it all the more laughable. The movie is not going to change in two weeks, with Zulu tribes and Amish people added to the terrorist group portrayed to make it less offensive. In a temporary ban, the government, for political reasons, has chosen to pass the buck, anticipating that Kamal Hassan would take legal actions, thus making it the problem of the Madras High Court and a legal issue.
There is no doubt that Kamal Hassan would win the case, should sanity which seems to be a rare commodity these days, prevail in the High Court given the legal precedent set so far. Firstly, the right to ban a movie and the decision to allow it to be screened lies with the Central Board of Film certification, as enshrined under the Cinematograph act of 1952. In 2006, the Supreme Court of India, dismissed a petition to ban The Da Vinci Code while The Madras High Court dismissed a ban issued by the government. In another case, S.Rangarajan vs. P.Jagajivan Ram the Supreme Court ruled in favour of the movie Ore Oru Gramathile which had been banned for being critical of Tamil Nadu’s education system. The court ruled that “freedom of expression cannot be suppressed on account of threat of demonstration and processions or threat of violence.” as this would “be tantamount to negation of the rule of law and a surrender to blackmail and intimidation.”
Given the precedent, the judgement should be in Kamal Hassan’s favour but that does not undo the emotional strain put on the man who starred, directed, wrote dialogue and lyrics as well as produced this movie for a whopping budget of 95 Crores. (950 million Rupees) The government of Tamil Nadu must be held accountable for passing the buck, and attempting to preserve its vote bank.
Equally puzzling and disturbing is the Singapore distributor and theatres’ decision to not film the movie as well despite the movie being passed with a NC-16 rating by the Film Censors in the Media Development Authority (MDA) of Singapore. Despite tickets having been sold, a decision was made to delay the screening of the film in Singapore. This leads one to conclude that perhaps Jayalalitha has been elected Chief Minister of Singapore in secret as well, given that the Tamil Nadu government’s decision to ban the movie takes precedent over the MDA’s decision to allow its screening. Equally disturbing is the lack of information offered to Singaporean viewers detailing the reasons behind the decision to yank the film off the theatres in the last minute. Given the small audience and their dependence on a small, loyal minority, distributors and theatre owners, one would assume would take more care not to disrespect their patrons.
There is little that film enthusiasts and Kamal Hassan fans, both in Singapore and Tamil Nadu can do for now, except hope that cooler and saner heads prevail. The politicization of God often rears an ugly head and this is yet another viswaroopam of such wonton ugliness.
Pravin Prakash
The Social Swami
Some of the information used in this article, particularly the legal bits were taken from this article in The Hindu which can be accessed at : http://www.thehindu.com/opinion/editorial/responsibility-to-protect/article4341102.ece